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Just found this blogger from a friend's Pinterest board. She is gorgeous and her maternity style is fabulous! You have to check her out!

 



A Thank You

I didn't think I'd be blogging about maternity style 10 days after my due date, but here I am, still pregnant, and still trying to figure out how to dress my very large baby bump. Tonight I have a benefit to go to with my husband, and as I sit here trying to figure out what I want to wear, I can't help but think about all the women who have gone before me (or right along side me) to inspire me to stay stylish while pregnant. In fact, these women are so incredible, I just have to publically thank them here for how amazing they are! I just have to let them know that they influenced me greatly and gave me the courage to keep up with my style regardless of how sick and tired I felt because of the pregnancy.

So here goes...Megan from The Frugalista Diaries (or Pregnant and Fabulous) was one of my first finds after I got pregnant, and helped me a lot in finding my own style. We are due about the same time and are both pretty petite, so I was glad to have someone else who was about my same size and feeling just as uncomfortable as me help encourage me through the pregnancy style blues. And boy does she look good! She is still wearing heels!

Teal, at Expecting Chic blew me away with her effortlessly chic and casual ensembles.

 Lena at Quality Rivets had super cool pregnancy style. I've been copying this look by wearing my own fedora hat on numerous occasions throughout my pregnancy.

 Megan at DIY Maternity has loads of maternity style! Most of her looks were so uniquely hers, she designed them from scratch (quite literally)!

 Marie from Lemondrop Vintage barely ever wore maternity clothes, but continued thrifting to find unique vintage finds that dressed her baby bump.

 Indiana over at Adored Austin was one of the cutest pregnant mommies I've ever seen! Her looks were not only cool, but were comfortable as well!

 Melissa from I Still Love Fashion came up with amazing looks that were always under even my (super low) budget!

 I was stunned when I recently found M's blog, Dear Baby. I was sure her photo below was a magazine cover, not a normal personal photograph! She is gorgeous and makes her baby bump figure look so romantic!

S from Academichic has been rocking put together casual looks that are so tasteful, you can barely tell she is even pregnant yet!



 E, also over at Academichic was the first pregnant blogger I ever found, and I found her a couple of years before I was pregnant. It is truly because of her that I was determined to continue blogging during this pregnancy. She always looked put together and stylish, baby bump and all! E is expecting again and is continuing to come up with polished maternity looks.

Lastly, I got some great tips from Imogen at Inside Out Style and Angie's blog, You Look Fab.

There are some newer maternity bloggers that I've added to my maternity inspiration link that are definitely in the category above, I just can't relate to them yet because they aren't as huge as I am, being they are in their second trimesters still. I just have to mention them as being fabulous as well, though, too - Strawberry Koi, What Andie Wears, and Stylish White Female are incredible!

Thank you to all of you fabulous ladies who have inspired me these past 10 months to not give up on my style and appearance even though morning sickness and gaining 35+ pounds in a short period of time would normally make me want to just wear sweatpants and tennis shoes! You all are AMAZING!

Outfit Post: Winter Wonderland

It's blizzarding out today, making me feel like I should have never gotten out of my pajamas this morning. I finally made it into sweatpants for my workout, but have been pretty much stumped since then trying to figure out what to wear before the hubby gets home (yes, I'm old fashioned like that and like to get dressed up for him).

I scoured the internet for inspiration on maternity fashion and found most of the looks to be unattainable for me. Like this one...doesn't Jessica Alba look stunning? And apparently she was just entering her third trimester in this picture. Sigh. I don't need a red carpet look, though, so I don't know why I'm so stuck on this photo.
Thanks to you readers, I was directed to some great blogs and found plenty of inspiration! Although now I'm really wishing for some long skinny legs and a longer torso so I can more easily pull off some of these looks. This is one of my favorite photos for inspiration from Quality Rivets. Doesn't Lena look so cool? I plan on borrowing some of the hubby's button down shirts and pulling out my fedora so I can copy her look.

For picking out my outfit for today, I noticed many of the maternity bloggers were just keeping things really comfortable with leggings or jeans and baggy tops, so I started with leggings and went from there. It's nothing exciting, but at least I got out of my sweatpants!

Isn't the snow beautiful?

And since the outside shots didn't really show the outfit...not that it really was exciting or anything...I also took some inside shots.

The top part of the dress/tunic is cable knit/cowl neck. It's cap sleeved, so I'm wearing a long sleeve black t-shirt underneath.

Dress - hand-me-down from sister-in-law
Leggings - Target - $3

Boots - JCPenney - $9

Necklace - F21 - gifted

Finding my style PART ONE (caveat: very long post!)

I've decided to start blogging again about my journey of "finding my style." Beware, though - my posts will be more verbose with less pictures from here on out since I will be explaining my thoughts on the matter.

Everyone knows that the first step to figuring out your style is to go through your wardrobe. Figure out what you actually like and don't like. Get rid of everything you don't like and start working from there. So I went through my closet and threw out a bunch of things that I just wore because it was something new to wear, or because it was on sale. I got rid of everything that really doesn't fit me, too. Unfortunately, I was left with very few things, but that gives me a chance to then replace everything with something that I will really love and that is really "me."

As I've been reading on other blogs (and from Missi), the next step to finding my style was to start an inspiration board. I love this idea. I started looking through my Vogue, J.Crew, and In Style magazines, and cut out pictures of anything that I thought was something I wanted to emulate, or anything that spoke to me. Yesterday I bought four squares of corkboard from Target for only $5.69.

Below are pictures of the beginnings of my inspiration boards with very long explanations of why they inspire me...

I cut this picture out because it represented something important to me that I've really been struggling with.

I spent most of my life being different. I grew up in a very conservative, Christian home, the second oldest of 11 children, and was homeschooled. To make me even more different, for a while my family avoided wearing any clothes that were trendy, because we were looking to be "in the world, but not of the world." When I turned 15, I started only wearing skirts and dresses that were below the knee so I would look as feminine (and also as modest) as possible. During that time the "it" look for my age was grunge. Yes, I stood out in my ankle length skirts and dresses.

As my family and I grew, we eventually became less and less extreme, and I think struck a balance. We still opt for the more conservative side of dressing, but have found that following a clothing trend does not make us "of the world." We don't want to dress "slutty" in anyway, but have found that dressing as attractively as possible makes a better statement to the world than covering up for dear life.

Since I spent so many years being different, I have enjoyed following the crowds with what I wear, and blending in through my young adult and young married years. Since starting this blog, however, I have yet again become "different" and it has recently started to bother me. Most moms scoff at me when they see me chasing my toddler around in wedge heels at the park. Some moms roll their eyes at me when I am wearing tights and a dress while shopping. I get snarls from other moms if I'm seen in heels, and am constantly getting comments (which are more like accusations), about how I manage to walk around in stilettos when I'm holding a toddler.

I think most moms just thought I was trying too hard, and wondered why I couldn't just put on a t-shirt and jeans. Maybe other Moms thinks I'm being selfish. Or yet others who simply think I am not being practical and putting my own vanity in front of my child's safety.

I've been thinking hard about this a lot. Evaluating whether I am trying too hard, or whether I care about how I look more than my child. Do I do this for me, my husband, my friends, or the world? The picture of this young Mom in her spectacular evening gown, but with her young son peeking out from behind her skirt, her Converse sneakers and simple cardigan sweater taming down her look, made me realize that I dress this way because it is "me". Nothing is wrong with a t-shirt and jeans, but nothing is wrong with heels and a dress either...EVEN if you're a Mom. It doesn't make me any less of a Mom if I wear a dress than if I wore jeans.

I think it's time for me to embrace being "different" again and keep my dressing standards. It's ok to wear 4 inch heels when you're a Mom if that's what you like. It's ok if I want to wear tights and dresses when other moms are wearing jeans and tennis shoes. This IS my style.

So the picture above is my favorite and that is why my "Mother in red" gets her very own board.
This next board represents a few things. In the corner you see a white shirt from Banana Republic. Plain, boring, but classic. This is a reminder to me that I need to remember to stick to classic pieces that never go out of style.

I also have a picture of Reese Witherspoon on her daily jog. Reese has three children, and yet she still stays fit. Maybe I don't always get to jog, but this reminds me to workout everyday.

The roses are pins from J.Crew. This is a reminder to me to keep everything I wear as feminine as possible, because that is what I like best. There is nothing more feminine than a rose brooch.

Then the nail polishes represent colors I want to wear more of. Deep, warm reds and burgundies. I'm not sure how long these colors will stay on my inspiration board, though, as I'm still exploring what colors I think really look good on me.

This next board is my hair inspiration board. In the middle is a picture I drew of myself with very short hair. Beneath that are two pictures of models with gorgeous long hair. I am always getting the urge to cut my hair short so I can look like the other Moms, and the super chic Hollywood style icons. Everyone is cutting their hair into a super sexy bob right now and I definitely have the itch. I think short cuts are so gorgeous on everyone! Nevertheless, my signature look is long hair and I think I need to stick to that. So everytime I get the urge to see myself with short hair, I can just look at this board, and then look beneath it and realize that no matter if I would look cute with short hair, I can't help but love long hair.

This last board is my "outfit looks" board. Each gal above is wearing something in the right cut, style, and color, for me (I think, at least). I love these outfits and want to emulate them as closely as possible in my own wardrobe.

So that's that for now. I may post some pictures of my outfits from time to time as I keep figuring this all out, and I will certainly post every time I have an epiphany of sorts on this topic.

One quick tip I found yesterday, too...

I had to leave the house by a certain time in order to make it somewhere before they closed, but I didn't want to miss my workout. So I worked out, leaving myself only 30 minutes to shower, dress, get my son dressed, and get out the door! This meant I had no time to really dress. Since as a Mom I don't get out much, I like to make the most of dressing whenever I do go out, even if it is just to run errands. Nevertheless, since I had only 10 minutes to fix my wet hair, put my makeup on, and pick an outfit out, I decided to just wear my corduroys and a long sleeve t-shirt. Still, I wanted to up my style quotient as best as I could for the circumstances. I threw on a belt, a cool hat, big earrings, and wore darker lipstick than normal and managed to really dress up an otherwise plain outfit.

Sometimes I take too much time picking out what to wear so that it looks different, or makes some sort of style statement, and I forget that it's not that complicated. Add a few statement accessories, and that's all you need.

Getting inspired...slowly...

This past weekend I decided to go through my closet. First it was just to pull out my summer clothes and make sure I had all my fall/winter clothes out. But then it turned into a more "cleansing" process of items of clothing I never wear, are to small, or simply look bad on me.

I'd really like to see my closet become more cohesive. I'd like to see it portray my style and fashion sense (what little I my posses) and keep to colors and silhouettes that are flattering to me. Since I don't have the money to go out and buy a new wardrobe right now, I thought I'd first let myself get inspired. I've started clipping out magazines of colors and shapes and styles that I really love. My bulletin board is very small, but here is what I have so far.

The top I've posted twice now (what I call my batwing top) I was inspired to buy after clipping out the picture of that black top on the bottom left hand corner of my bulletin board. That cashmere top you can get at Macy's for $99. I think my version of it from Target was a much better deal:) Granted, it's not cashmere, but I am a mom with a young toddler, so why spend big bucks on an item I need to be able to throw in the wash?
I've found the colors I'm drawn to in magazines are black, white, gray, red and yellow. I love dark colored nail polish and simple but statment making belts and other accessories. This is all becoming very fun and exciting. I feel like I've started a treasure hunt quest of sorts. A treasure hunt to find my sense of style/fashion and bring it out in what I buy and wear. Fun!